Were you spanked as a child?

Were you spanked as a child?

  • No

    Votes: 3 6.7%
  • Yes

    Votes: 42 93.3%

  • Total voters
    45
No, being on punishments for weeks helped keep me in check.

My mom quickly realized that this was the case. As a young kid, I'd rationalize 'Yeah, I'll just take the ass whooping. Shit'll be over quick.'. When I was put on punishment or had shit taken away, a nigga was SICK.
 
If I did some bad shit and my momma told me stay inside. 7 out of 10 she gon kick me out the house for being loud and “annoying” her


I had a system with her lol
 
I got whoopings when I was a kid but my wife didn't. We both react differently when it comes to disciplining our kids sometimes. She's definitely too soft sometimes and I'm definitely too tough sometimes but we always agree on the punishment in the end.

I don't whoop my kids just because I got whooped. I just know from getting whoopings and not getting whoopings what the impact is on certain shit. She never got whooped so in her eyes things that aren't even a punishment might seem like a punishment sometimes.
 
My folks told us - 3 bros and 1 sis - to grab the ‘slipper’ which meant a spanking which had us all shook and directly in line right away lol.

Grandpops literally kicked my azz once, he lived in a rural area and I decided run away/walk home to my parents house alone - which was like a 100 miles away - and my lil bro tagged along... I told my lil bro he couldn’t join so he got upset and told Grandpops what I did so he kicked my azz: not because I ran away but because ‘you never leave your brother behind!’ Lol.

anyway, my boy is almost 5 and my wife is against Spanking - he already had his first bouts at school - but I don’t have the answers. I think the spanking helped me set barriers and all that but maybe my folks weren’t patient enough? All I know is I had a great childhood and was spoiled af...
 
Yup. They even tried a bunch of different stuff. I was a bad little kid lol

Of course they deny that shit now though
 
Yup, depending how bad I fucked around it was tiers to the punishment.

spank
Wooden spoon
Belt
swearing and embarrassing mum, mouthful of dish soap.

“Wash that foul language outta your mouth” is a saying I’m sure other English users from my era are used
 
usually switches but sometimes a belt when I needed it...from my mom and father

i think its healthy for a boy from a father if administered correctly and fairly.

teaches consequence anf a healthy respect for grown males/larger individuals....
 
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