Allergens
Me I'm Supa Fly
Ion think this thread has been created before so here we go.
There are a lot of reasons a relationship can go sour. We all know this, so there’s no need for every comment to state as such.
I’m your mind, what is the main reasons relationships can go sour.
My opinion, the main reason relationships go sour is the jealousy of people around those in relationships. This is why all the posting on social media about ur love for one another, is a poison pill u are forcing ur relationship to make.
People don’t like when others are happy with things they can too obtain but don’t make the effort or take the opportunity to obtain. So they have to find a way to ruin it for you, without admiting to themselves this is the reason why.
They will try to convince ur s/o or you that, the other isn’t doing all they should. They will try to belittle you or ur s/o to the other that they can do better. They will try to dismiss the way the person makes you feel, but treating it as tho it’s a small feat.
When I’m actuality, they want all that u or ur s/o gain from ur relationship. And like most things with humans in general. The more u are around something, the more it becomes normal and doesn’t standout.
The more u or ur s/o may start to believe that what was once special and is special. Is just as mundane as these jealous folks say. Then you or ur s/o view ur mate in the eyes of the less privileged and informed.
That’s why I feel if you want a strong and long relationship. You keep others completely out of anything good about it. Because even the strongest have weak moments and that’s all it takes a lot of times.
There are a lot of reasons a relationship can go sour. We all know this, so there’s no need for every comment to state as such.
I’m your mind, what is the main reasons relationships can go sour.
My opinion, the main reason relationships go sour is the jealousy of people around those in relationships. This is why all the posting on social media about ur love for one another, is a poison pill u are forcing ur relationship to make.
People don’t like when others are happy with things they can too obtain but don’t make the effort or take the opportunity to obtain. So they have to find a way to ruin it for you, without admiting to themselves this is the reason why.
They will try to convince ur s/o or you that, the other isn’t doing all they should. They will try to belittle you or ur s/o to the other that they can do better. They will try to dismiss the way the person makes you feel, but treating it as tho it’s a small feat.
When I’m actuality, they want all that u or ur s/o gain from ur relationship. And like most things with humans in general. The more u are around something, the more it becomes normal and doesn’t standout.
The more u or ur s/o may start to believe that what was once special and is special. Is just as mundane as these jealous folks say. Then you or ur s/o view ur mate in the eyes of the less privileged and informed.
That’s why I feel if you want a strong and long relationship. You keep others completely out of anything good about it. Because even the strongest have weak moments and that’s all it takes a lot of times.