no....she had no kids when we got together.... i wouldnt have had it any other way
fast foward a couple years (i came with my kid, and now we have one together)
her step dads son OD's and dies with his (3yr old at the time) son in the house.....mama running the streets using
so mom and step dad adopt the kid.....we're still two separate families and households
fast foward a couple more years (wife has now adopted my daughter and we have 2 together....im maxed out, im done)
BOOM....step dad gets caught cheating, they split.....her mom keeps the $500k house but cant afford it and its way too big for just her, and they share the adopted kid
my wife, being the baby and the heir of all this anyway, cant let the whole shit just crumble
we sell our house to her sister, move in moms, take over all expenses and settle in for the long run....mom takes care of the babies, the house, and the cooking
but I now have an extra child every other week.....a wild redheaded lil boy lol....puts my count at 4
I dodged it as long as I could but as time goes on he's becoming my kid....my girls call him their brother, he's looking to me for guidance, he's in our family pics, he's telling me what he wants for Christmas, etc
THATS how you get an extra kid without either of you having a kid lol