Lol reminds me of a story my homeboy once told me...
He was dating this chick on an off, young minded, just turned 21 hot off a divorce from a guy who whisked her away to Korea lol... She was still hot for male attention like a MF...
My homie took her to a lounge one time... She had her tits completely hanging out...
To the point to where the bouncer came and checked her ass. He said something basically to the effect that since she already had her man's attention and affection completely, that she was dressing like that for other dudes prying eyes.
And I tend to agree.
Have some discernment. Not even on no insecure shit, but at least have some taste smh