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In regards to married folks hanging out with single folks, and doing single folk shyt...I always asked "Why get married?"

Obviously its b/c folks like having that "secure" foundation at home, but want to enjoy the benefits single life provides. And there's nothing wrong wit having those thoughts. We're human. The issue occurs when you give in to the influence and act on them.

Yes...friends can DEFINITELY have a negative influence on you and your relationship. Especially if they see things are going well, and their situation isn't. The old saying "misery loves company" holds true. I've witnessed this 1st hand.
single life is only good when you have a few extra dollars to spend.
cause if you dont....aint no chick trynna hear what you saying.

crazy....my uncle had a chick for like 20 yrs...she never wanted to get married.
he passed a few months ago and now the chick mad cause she dont get nothing and getting kicked out the house by my lil cousin...
all because she wasnt the wife so nothing goes to her legally.

lmao
 
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“Be ye transformed by the renenwing of your mind” Romans 12:2

My favorite scripture cause it reminds me that its all about mindset...

And also

You dont have to have square friends or stop listening to hip hop lol

You can still do all them things...just gotta set boundaries for yourself bruh.

I take hiatuses all the time.

I appreciate that shit bruh

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only do what you want to do.

be lazy
be selfish
stop worrying about peoples feelings

like if you're a good person......and you know you are a good person....

you don't have to be a nice person....

infact fucking being nice...


nice people are't always good people, and good people aren't always nice people...remember that shit....

people will always value their convenience over your consideration..


just worry about yourself first and do what interests you and you'll see things being less and less stressful..

the only people in life you gotta bust your ass for is your family....the rest of the world can kiss your ass....

whoooo! Come on hea, pastah!

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Great dialogue here yall

@1/2 I think is a good testament to your spirit that you want to continue grow as a Husband, and tho its unsaid, as a father and a man

I agree with just about everything said and will tell you straight up, there's nothing wrong with a hard reset on what you 'digest' in ya body. Its easy to say get some will power and just be mentally tough but everyone don't have that in em. Just like everyone don't have the drive of a Puffy for example.

If you need to do full cleanse every few months and get away from rap and SM and porn and whatever, do so. Then ease back in to it until you feel like its affecting ya life and then cleanse again

My 2 cents b

yeah, and it may be just that simple *shrugs*.....im doing better than I was fwiw
 
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