Bow to Royalty
Just facts
Like you can't buy someone into a role....
Either they with it or they not.... So if that's what you want find someone eager to play that role.
A new car and house ain't gonna change them into a whole new person
I dunno about that. If a man and his wife both work 40 hours/week they may split household duties accordingly. Well if he eventually starts his own business that has him working 60+ hours/week but he now makes enough that she doesn't have to work anymore...I don't think it's asking much for her to take on additional household duties. So I think you should be able to buy someone into a role.