What goes around….really goes around

[Mister B.]

Who’s right here? Who’s wrong here?

 

[CeLLar-DooR]

For the life of me I'll never understand why you guys in the States are so willin' to fly chicks over to you

 

[shutupGabi]

He didn't pick her up from the airport since he flew her out?

 

[loud-ninja]

Dont really have a lot of info. But based on this, either he never made his intentions known that he wants a relationship or she played him. Communication is key. Either way, long distance relationships rarely work out. I wouldnt even try it. Hell, I consider an hour away long distance, lol

 

[CeLLar-DooR]

She really tried to holiday offa my man tho' lmaoooo that's some cheeky shit

 

[CeLLar-DooR]

Dont really have a lot of info. But based on this, either he never made his intentions known that he wants a relationship or she played him. Communication is key. Either way, long distance relationships rarely work out. I wouldnt even try it. Hell, I consider an hour away long distance, lol

Lol big man did you read the texts or nah

 

[King Freeman]

You should always have a back up plan if shit doesn't work out. Especially when traveling.

 

[Rubato]

His fault

 

[SKPJR]

The chick is wrong as hell. She thought she had found a lame and hit a major lick. She was planning to play his ass for as much as she could for as long as she could. Dude fell face first into the thirst trap but I'll at least give him credit for taking his L, accepting his L and rectifying the situation as quickly and as ferociously as possible. These hoes gonna learn. It's all good until it ain't.

 

[Banginscrew901]

Dont really have a lot of info. But based on this, either he never made his intentions known that he wants a relationship or she played him. Communication is key. Either way, long distance relationships rarely work out. I wouldnt even try it. Hell, I consider an hour away long distance, lol

Naw read the whole thing. They was sending each other nudes and phone sex. She had to know that she was gone have to play once she got there. Cause once you start that nasty talk with long distant involved its like a gimme that we having some sex when you get here.

 

[King Freeman]

Dont really have a lot of info. But based on this, either he never made his intentions known that he wants a relationship or she played him. Communication is key. Either way, long distance relationships rarely work out. I wouldnt even try it. Hell, I consider an hour away long distance, lol

6 months yall exchanging nudes, sexting now he flying you out and booking a hotel for you? Stop playing games.

He's wack for doing all that for someone he never even met tho. Dealing with her like she an escort. Set himself up for a L.

They both wrong.

 

[CeLLar-DooR]

His fault

He's lame no doubt but anyone in his shoes would think he was fuckin'

 

[Banginscrew901]

6 months yall exchanging nudes, sexting now he flying you out and booking a hotel for you? Stop playing games.

He's wack for doing all that for someone he never even met tho. Dealing with her like she an escort. Set himself up for a L.

They both wrong.

Dude did it right,and he took the L . Felt like everything was on the up and up and he was gone be possibly be staying there with her at the room. But once she stated acting brand new he did the right thing. I would gotten her pulled out the room that night. And she not so bright didn't come with any money to get back

 

[DMorgan]

LLS niggas real live don't be reading the OP of the threads they post in.

 

[AZTG]

Idk whose fault it is. She might have led him on. She might have not. Its hard to know just off this.

Shr wrong for letting her "friend" spend 1,000 on her regardless though. I never understood how people are comfortable accepting such expensive gifts.

 

[loud-ninja]

Lol big man did you read the texts or nah

Naw read the whole thing. They was sending each other nudes and phone sex. She had to know that she was gone have to play once she got there. Cause once you start that nasty talk with long distant involved its like a gimme that we having some sex when you get here.

6 months yall exchanging nudes, sexting now he flying you out and booking a hotel for you? Stop playing games.

He's wack for doing all that for someone he never even met tho. Dealing with her like she an escort. Set himself up for a L.

They both wrong.

Im referring to the being more than friends part. He was calling her bae. Seems like he thought they were more than friends. Friends can have sex but he didnt want that. He wanted to start a relationship.

 

[Chicity]

He messed up by not picking her and staying at the hotel with her

She messed up by thinking the thought of her was enough to keep him on the line

 

[King Freeman]

Dude did it right,and he took the L . Felt like everything was on the up and up and he was gone be possibly be staying there with her at the room. But once she stated acting brand new he did the right thing. I would gotten her pulled out the room that night. And she not so bright didn't come with any money to get back

I don't think it's fair to treat your kindness as transactional and be upset if a chick ain't putting out in return. You gotta be coming stronger than that.

That said I'm not gonna chalk it up to her being naive, unaware or some bullshit like that either. Both of them played themselves.

 

[Rubato]

I remember niggas debating about the whole $200 date topic. This is him spending 5x that on somebody he’s never met. His fault.

 

[King Freeman]

Im referring to the being more than friends part. He was calling her bae. Seems like he thought they were more than friends. Friends can have sex but he didnt want that. He wanted to start a relationship.

He wanted to fuck.