Asking women when are they gonna have children.
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Being shocked that there are men out there who don’t have kids and are over 30, like myself
Being shocked that there are men out there who don’t have kids and are over 30, like myself
They hate it because they know the ball is in your court. A man that is over 30, child-free, single, in good physical shape and doing well financially is the prize.Her : "You don't have kids?"
Me : "No."
Her : "Really? You have no kids?"
Me : "No. I don't have any kids."
Insta-turnoff.
Sometimes you gotta ask these niggas multiple times if they got kids or if they actually single.....Her : "You don't have kids?"
Me : "No."
Her : "Really? You have no kids?"
Me : "No. I don't have any kids."
Insta-turnoff.
why so?Sometimes you gotta ask these niggas multiple times if they got kids or if they actually single.....
what you mean?placing undue significance on marriage.
Sometimes you gotta ask these niggas multiple times if they got kids or if they actually single.....
why so?
does the answer change?
you got kids?
no
you have kids?
not really
im curious how a convo goes?
Fixed. Men don't like that shit either. I've actually considered it to be disrespectful after a while.Askingwomenpeople when are they gonna have children.
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I've never been in this situation personally, but I've seen a chick meet and date a dude who swore up and down he was only dealing with her and gave no indication it was any other way. Come to find out he had a whole wife and kids. Niggas be lying b lol. Sometimes the good ones gotta catch strays on behalf of the trash.Some of the shit I get asked or see chicks get tense about I'm thinking...
"what kind of fuck nigga trauma have you been through? Like what happened to you?"
I'm not equipped to deal with that trauma you've been through off the jump.
We need to unpack our baggage slowly.