To be or not to be...Childfree!

[IP360]

I’m surprised that this thread hasn’t been made yet, as I’m sure there are several childfree adults on this board.

How bout it: if you are currently childfree, do you plan on staying that way?

If you do have kids, do you shun those that don’t?

I smh at people when they say "Do you plan to have kids?" As if it's that easy. Like I can just snap my fingers and POOF...a child appears.

Imo...if it happens...it happens. I leave that up to the Almighty. My life isn't gonna feel incomplete regardless.

 

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eddie griffin said people love to use the excuse "im broke" for why they dont want kids

"so what....now you, and the baby broke"

 

[Johnn5]

It's a choice of everyone and whatever it is we should appreciate it, me & my sweetheart I got acquainted with on are dreaming of having a child

 

[konceptjones]

ayo @Goldie Clear out the trash ^^^. Three posts, all of them for dating sites, you know it's a bot.

 

[Hiram]

I'll be 35 April 17 2020, I don't have kids. Could've had a 12 yr old son by now, she had a miscarriage. Could've had twin girls that would've been 3 by now, different woman btw. High risk pregnancy, she ruptured her placenta at 5 months, kids didn't make it. That's how it be at times but I don't really care at this point.

I just wanted kids to carry on my bloodline cuz I was my mother's only kid, and my pops only son but I been feeling real bitter and indifferent about dealing with women lately so again it's like...meh.

In my 20s I played russian roulette enough with my dick I should have had plenty of kids thru 6 women but all I had to offer was a job making 12/hr and $100,000 worth of debt. Too focused on that and money than love, commitment and kids.

So here I am, and at this stage i'm like fuck it. Keep working mindlessly at a time 60 to 84 hrs a week, drink then stumble back into my room for what i took to be jolly good night. #smoke and mirrors

 

[Black 🖤]

I'll be 35 April 17 2020, I don't have kids. Could've had a 12 yr old son by now, she had a miscarriage. Could've had twin girls that would've been 3 by now, different woman btw. High risk pregnancy, she ruptured her placenta at 5 months, kids didn't make it. That's how it be at times but I don't really care at this point.

I just wanted kids to carry on my bloodline cuz I was my mother's only kid, and my pops only son but I been feeling real bitter and indifferent about dealing with women lately so again it's like...meh.

In my 20s I played russian roulette enough with my dick I should have had plenty of kids thru 6 women but all I had to offer was a job making 12/hr and $100,000 worth of debt. Too focused on that and money than love, commitment and kids.

So here I am, and at this stage i'm like fuck it. Keep working mindlessly at a time 60 to 84 hrs a week, drink then stumble back into my room for what i took to be jolly good night. #smoke and mirrors

Sorry to read this. Never lost a child before so I can't imagine the feeling.

Sometimes you find things when you're not looking. Don't give up. I hope everything works out though.

 

[Black 🖤]

Been around kids all my life. I feel like I might be allergic to havin my own.

I keep sayin I can't afford kids right now and I like the freedom. Idk if those are just excuses or fear...

...but ain interested in havin any babies at this current time in my life so, I'm good.

 

[MIUSA]

I’d say by you’re early 30s you should have a kid. If you don’t you’re just putting your own race at a disadvantage.

and no teen pregnancy