MissK
I was Not here
Hey ladies! (guys as well)
One of my goals and passion in life is mental health awareness in the black community. For those that don't know me I am a few credit hours away from completing my BA in Psychology and in the time I have spent taking classes I have been saddened to see that there is not much focus on our community. There are many of us that turn to the church to solve our 'mental issues' or they go ignored completely and statistically our group is under-diagnosed when it comes to this particular area. I did have the privilege of taking a Black Psychology class taught by a young black woman who I now consider to be a mentor and friend. She recently did a program focused on SelfCare and I am so excited about it that I would like to get a discussion going on that and other issues of mental wellness.
So what is self-care? Self-care is care provided for you by you. Identifying your own needs and taking the steps to meet those needs. Sometimes we get so busy tending to the needs of others that we forget to take care of our own or feel that if we do it is being selfish. In fact it is the very opposite because when we take care of ourselves we can better take care of others.
So in this thread I'd love to see us brainstorm and talk about taking care of ourselves. I am hoping that if there is interest I can continue threads dealing with mental health related issues for both women and men.
So join me in this activity of self-care brainstorming:
One of my goals and passion in life is mental health awareness in the black community. For those that don't know me I am a few credit hours away from completing my BA in Psychology and in the time I have spent taking classes I have been saddened to see that there is not much focus on our community. There are many of us that turn to the church to solve our 'mental issues' or they go ignored completely and statistically our group is under-diagnosed when it comes to this particular area. I did have the privilege of taking a Black Psychology class taught by a young black woman who I now consider to be a mentor and friend. She recently did a program focused on SelfCare and I am so excited about it that I would like to get a discussion going on that and other issues of mental wellness.
So what is self-care? Self-care is care provided for you by you. Identifying your own needs and taking the steps to meet those needs. Sometimes we get so busy tending to the needs of others that we forget to take care of our own or feel that if we do it is being selfish. In fact it is the very opposite because when we take care of ourselves we can better take care of others.
So in this thread I'd love to see us brainstorm and talk about taking care of ourselves. I am hoping that if there is interest I can continue threads dealing with mental health related issues for both women and men.
So join me in this activity of self-care brainstorming:
- Find yourself a pen, paper (or the notes of your phone) and a timer (which is probably also on your phone).
- Write “What brings me joy?” and then for 1 minute, begin to brainstorm and write down all that brings you joy. Stop after 1 minute and read over your list.
- Write “What will move me forward in life?” and then for 1 minute, begin to brainstorm and write down all that will help move you forward in your life. Stop after 1 minute and read over your list.
- Write “What is good for me?” and then for 1 minute, begin to brainstorm and write down all that is good for you. Stop after 1 minute and read over your list.
- Write “What is self-care?” and then for 1 minute, begin to brainstorm and write down all that comes to your mind when you think of self-care. Stop after 1 minute and read over your list.
- Read over all of your lists one last time. Any similarities? Any differences? Any patterns? Anything that stands out? (this list credited to Dr. Thornton)