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Polygamy and Polygyny

I was a teen and heard this comedian talking about having multiple wives and how he could see how that would be appealing. He said however all he could picture was "nag, nag, nag, nag, nag" and he knew it would never be for him. Guess you'd have to have the last say or excellent communication and honesty for it to work out.

Idk if I could do it cuz I'm already not a huge fan of having the same people around all the time.
 
Props to these folks for finding the strength to exist together and make it work. What's meant for one group isn't meant for another
 
If it works for them, more power to them.

I'm kinda curious why he was so unhappy being with his ex-wife yet still wanted to be in a relationship with her.
 
If it works for them, more power to them.

I'm kinda curious why he was so unhappy being with his ex-wife yet still wanted to be in a relationship with her.
Gonna go on a limb and say certain wants or needs she couldn't meet on his end. No knock on her, but that can be the case sometimes. Hell I'm betting he didn't meet all her's either, but it may not have been on the same level
 
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I 100% feel like I COULD pull it off... But I also feel like the amount of patience would be mad draining


I get the appeal, but it seems like double the headache trying to deal with two personalities that I love and care for at the same time.
When would I have time for myself?

All this..... Life would feel too crowded. In modern relationships, the women aren't often as repressed as they are in other and older cultures where this is more common. It would take way more energy imo than it's worth 🤷🏿‍♂️
 
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Idk imo as a fuck buddy you not meeting the other people they fuck with. Resources aren't combined...its really just a sexual thing. While I understand you said "a form". I thought the whole premise of the poly lifestyle was for economic growth and etc etc. Fuck buddies doesn't seem to be in line with that premise.
It’s definitely not fuck buddies but I can say it works... but probably at the same % or higher than standard 1 v 1 relationships.

girls that are poly that I know, are generally comfortable with themselves and got a little more adventurous nature. The ones I know got more than one dude or girl and they seem to aight. Especially if the woman is bi...

hey you don’t own the other person anyway....being poly just lets yall be honest safe with how y’all want to carry it.

what I have witnessed is that guys get pissed when One of the girls in their polycule finds a dude....which is real...and hillarious...

guys be happy as hell with the new girl but hate the new dude and vice versa...

but again. Trust that it works....and makes date Night better...traveling better...you don’t have to be everything to someone...just easier....finances be much much better...trust
 
Gonna go on a limb and say certain wants or needs she couldn't meet on his end. No knock on her, but that can be the case sometimes. Hell I'm betting he didn't meet all her's either, but it may not have been on the same level
I’m going to go out a limb and say no one person completes anyone....if they did porn wouldn’t be a thing, cheating or any of it.

if you poly you just learn what you can and should talk about as a group and what is one on one.


the thing people have to get is you still have a deep one on one relation....it’s just you got more than one of them
 
I don't have the funds, the game or the energy, tbh, lol.

I do think that polyamory and polygamy is going to become more and more popular, it might even become a norm by the end of the century, assuming...you know, humanity is still a thing. A lot of women out there already share the fathers of their children, or just men in general and a lot of them seem to be ok with it. Might as well pool your resources. All it will take is a few cosigns/tweets from influential people and I feel the stigma will vanish in no time.
love The honesty...finances are easier if 3 or 4 people working....plus when someone down you got a squad to help out....not saying it works for everyone but it’s happening all around you....people just can’t be open about it.

plus for the most part 3 people are not all sexual....mostly it’s 1 v 1 and true venn diagram of connections....open connections and honest stuff - Safe sex and all that....all about those test and not letting the new person in without validation etc....

I honestly just went to a wedding where two people got married but they both had their “partners” in the wedding party...progressive naw...just open
 
I 100% feel like I COULD pull it off... But I also feel like the amount of patience would be mad draining




All this..... Life would feel too crowded. In modern relationships, the women aren't often as repressed as they are in other and older cultures where this is more common. It would take way more energy imo than it's worth 🤷🏿‍♂️


Once I saw Big Love on HBO years back I knew it wasn't for me.


There was always something going on with the wives.


Dude was always stressed out.
 
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