Polygamy is the acknowledgment of outside relationships. Cheating by definition means breaking the rules. If the rules of your relationship is based in polygamy, then sleeping with other women isn't cheating. But if you enter a relationship with a woman and from your words and expressions, it's a monogamous relationship. Sleeping with another woman is breaking the rules of that relationship.I’ll play along since SOME of you idiots don’t either acknowledge your history, think that it begins post 1492, or just decided to disregard it. For thousands of years, many African nations were polygamous. So to classify a black man as cheating would in most cases contradict what has been in his DNA for many generations before monogamy was forced upon America.
All you have to do, or rather most of what you have to do, regarding finding true victory and freedom, is focus on a time when YOUR people were winning collectively and see how they lived. Hmmmm. Mansa Musa is a good start (wealthiest man who ever lived this far) but oh wait, he had several wives. Guess that makes him a low life huh? Fuck outta here.
Also, what is nature trying to tell us? If women outnumber men just like the planets outnumber the sun, and we have to assume that women have some sort of standards, that would leave your options for a sustainable relationship, not a random fuck, to be close to 0. It is what it is though.
If you tell a woman upfront that I'm going to be fucking other women while i fuck wit you. That's different than a woman believing its only her and you stepping out. It ain't the same as the history as you cited.