OPINION Love after Lockup

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  1. AP21

    AP21 Don't ask me for s**t!!! Bride's Alimony Mod Squad

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    per the recommendation of @westie, i started watching this

    Im skeptical af when it comes to reality tv these days. I think 95% of its scripted, but this was just TOO much.

    I saw the pilot (below) and while it may have scripted elements, there are still things i think that can be taken from it to have a discussion.

    I hope you can watch some of the video just to get some context, but this was interesting af imo.

    Do any of you, fellas or ladies think you can have a relationship with someone jail, in hopes of having a life with them upon release?

     
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  2. Blackish

    Blackish Some people graduate, but be still stupid. #23 Roll Tide Cole World Melanade

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    Lmao.
     
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  3. AP21

    AP21 Don't ask me for s**t!!! Bride's Alimony Mod Squad

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    why you laughing Blac lol
     
  4. Blackish

    Blackish Some people graduate, but be still stupid. #23 Roll Tide Cole World Melanade

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    To answer the question, naw.
     
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  5. AP21

    AP21 Don't ask me for s**t!!! Bride's Alimony Mod Squad

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    so you not gon watch any of the vid :(
     
  6. Blackish

    Blackish Some people graduate, but be still stupid. #23 Roll Tide Cole World Melanade

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    The trailer had me dying man. You're right, you can tell it's scripted. And sending 20 grand to somebody you've never met in life is beyond crazy imo. I'm not doin no #PrisonBae shit.
     
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  7. Blackish

    Blackish Some people graduate, but be still stupid. #23 Roll Tide Cole World Melanade

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    Lol nooo. I'm still watching as I type.
     
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  8. AP21

    AP21 Don't ask me for s**t!!! Bride's Alimony Mod Squad

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    the thing is, while i think the show is scripted, there are documented instances where that stuff has happened...maybe not to the tune of $20k, but definitely putting money on people's books and shit

    I think the biggest thing i took away from the episode i caught was that the desire for companionship is very real not matter what walk of life you come from.
     
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  9. Playmaker88

    Playmaker88 IDoChildishGambino'sStunts Bride's Alimony

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    i turned the channel @per recommendation form westie i started watching this reality show :L:
     
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  10. Duwop

    Duwop Undeniable Staff Member ABW's 2017 Male Poster of the Year, 2018 Biggest Sore Loser Mod Squad 2018 Couple of the Year: The Du's

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    jail relationships are about as strong as they were on the outside....

    it's a lot tougher to fix shit because of the strain to communication, but if a person is dedicated, they're dedicated.

    I've seen some serious ride or die folk for their s/o while they were locked up...

    and i seen a lotta folk just completely not give a fuck.... but more times than not those were the relationships that were shaky from the start.....

    also what they did to get ocked has a big impact on it........
     
  11. AP21

    AP21 Don't ask me for s**t!!! Bride's Alimony Mod Squad

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    dont do that in here nignog
     
  12. 1/2

    1/2 Dont drank out my drank, foo Billy Jack 2018 Rookie of the Year, 2018 Most Ghetto Male

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    fuck the show, but people do this all the time

    niggas get out and have a whole pen pal from Kansas pick em up with hopes of getting married and opening a restaurant lol

    some places where its legal, they get married while they're still locked up

    everybody needs somebody, whether you're a dumb hopeless romantic or a nigga tryna get on his feet
     
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    Duwop Undeniable Staff Member ABW's 2017 Male Poster of the Year, 2018 Biggest Sore Loser Mod Squad 2018 Couple of the Year: The Du's

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    nigaz in jail got hella game tho....

    they be having chicks fighting over visiting hours
     
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  14. AP21

    AP21 Don't ask me for s**t!!! Bride's Alimony Mod Squad

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    right

    which is crazy to me

    do you think they are preying on these people's emotions?
     
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  15. GNS

    GNS I'm in a Dominican, big papi Ortiz

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    Word thats the wrong bitch to take advice from this nigga but to be a bra burning feminist
     
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  16. AP21

    AP21 Don't ask me for s**t!!! Bride's Alimony Mod Squad

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    GNS...fam...i'ma tell you this one time

    I LIKE WOMEN...you need to stop stalking my posts fam

    shit aint the wave

    if you not gon add nothing to the convo, why you in here??
     
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    1/2 Dont drank out my drank, foo Billy Jack 2018 Rookie of the Year, 2018 Most Ghetto Male

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    just depends on the person

    I cant say everybody has ill intentions, but a lot do

    I mean you're at rock bottom, and most likely dont have family holding you down like that

    some really just need somebody to talk to, to get some type of understanding and affection from

    you cant tell somebody else on the inside about how you feel in there.....THEY KNOW

    so I could definitely see how some type of real connection can be made thru that type of obstacle

    I just think its rare for both parties to be on the same page about it once the one on lock is released
     
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  18. Judge Dread

    Judge Dread Prominent Member

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    If I were single,
    And I knew the person before they went in then yes. But to meet while they were in and wait and start when they got out.. probably not. I used to visit a friend at Rose M. Singer and there were a lot of beautiful women in there but I never chatted them up.
     
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    Judge Dread Prominent Member

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    My Bretheren met his wife while they were both locked up. She got out first and waited 3 to 4 years for him to get out. They got married had a bunch of kids and were happy. Until he got caught up again and is now doing another 10. She is not waiting this time.
     
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  20. Golden

    Golden Administrator Staff Member The Queen

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    hard out here, this prison love
     
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