So my brother and I finally setup and finalize a final expense policy for my father today (2.5 hour meeting). It was super informative but also sad at parts for me. I don't express sadness in front of anybody. It comes off as anger kinda. But I felt a lil sad today.
@Old Man Cain made this thread and while everything else here is mainly a jokey joke. This thread and my experience with this is really emotional for me.
Burying your family member with no plan or money is the worst.
And even the conversation today. My dad has health issues so the most we can get is $15,000. While I can do another policy via another company. At some point paying $300+ a month to get money when you die...it don' sit right with me.
Like the conversation was real but hard. My dad a real blunt man and he is like I gotta died in 3 years for this to make sense. After three years you paying more into it. The insurance guy trying to highlight the interest etc etc.
And then the guy was telling us about how white funeral homes usually have the crematorium and how the black ones have to go through them. That's why many white funeral homes are cheaper. (We were asking about cost of cremations)
Don't put this shit off. It has taken me some time to shop and get prices and then get my brother and dad together. Then to find out my brother don't have a life insurance policy today ! You really don't want your kid or other family having to pull together money and sort through this.Involve all family and talk about these things.
Okay off my soapbox