Is there a wrong here or just a difference of opinion?

[Lea]

I saw this on IG and thought it was an interesting situation... Is he wrong? Is she? What say you?

 

[AP2.5]

Nah b, spend time with ya own kids

 

[1/2]

fuck no lmao

get both of ya'll beat up

no reason to even create that relationship

I understand that the kids may want that time together but thats just a part of having blended families that people gotta deal with

 

[OhMars]

The momma and baby father doing too much. You can be friendly with my kids even buy them a Christmas present if you want, but they aint hanging with you like that.

 

[Chicity]

That's cool of him but nah

She buggy for pressing him about it also

 

[1/2]

people are tripped out like that, I've seen it

had an ex that got mad because I didnt bring my kids to see her when she was in town visiting

we keep in touch here and there but she just could not understand how or why that wasnt a good thing lol

 

[Chicity]

'I think he responsible....'

'Why didn't you stay with his responsible ass then?'

 

[Duwop]

he's mad insecure, she's mad aggy..

both of them are making a bigger deal out of it then it needs to be.....

u let ur kids go out with aunts n uncles, homie should be no different..

but if he don't want his kid with homie. then she need to just let it go and fall back.....

 

[Duwop]

they belong together though...

 

[1/2]

he's mad insecure, she's mad aggy..

both of them are making a bigger deal out of it then it needs to be.....

u let ur kids go out with aunts n uncles, homie should be no different..

but if he don't want his kid with homie. then she need to just let it go and fall back.....

WHOA.....I'll let your distant relatives statement stand even tho its shaky lol

but insecure?....this has nothing to do with the woman.....he's obviously cool with their relationship over their children....HIS child is in no way a part of that, and the shit aint guaranteed to stay sweet like it is.....why even put that kinda confusion in your childs life?

 

[OhMars]

My mom is the kinda woman that would want to take her ex kids with her too lol. And would be shocked when someone told her thats odd

 

[GNS]

he's mad insecure

Insecure??
Man u niggaz wild
My only solution is to shoot the bitch so obviously I shouldn't be answering either but these questions always brings out some strange responses to me

 

[Duwop]

WHOA.....I'll let your distant relatives statement stand even tho its shaky lol

but insecure?....this has nothing to do with the woman.....he's obviously cool with their relationship over their children....HIS child is in no way a part of that, and the shit aint guaranteed to stay sweet like it is.....why even put that kinda confusion in your childs life?

they siblings, siblings should be able to do together, especially if the adult is willing...

 

[Duwop]

Insecure??
Man u niggaz wild
My only solution is to shoot the bitch so obviously I shouldn't be answering either but these questions always brings out some strange responses to me

yup....

why you don't an ur kid with their siblings??

he obviously feels some way about dude......

 

[ChicagoFigure]

And what happens when this other guy one day feels he had to whoop your child for something?

Better to avoid some shit like that altogether

 

[Duwop]

And what happens when this other guy one day feels he had to whoop your child for something?

Better to avoid some shit like that altogether

:smh:

 

[1/2]

siblings in a blended family.....the adults in this situation should all understand that these kids aint gone get to do everything together

every other weekend aint gone hurt nothing....theres kids going back and forth week by week to different households and siblings

he'll be alright lol

sounds like the mama is focused on getting a kid free weekend out the deal

 

[Duwop]

that these kids aint gone get to do everything together

only thing stopping that is spite and ego

spite and ego have always been relationship killers

 

[Playmaker88]

This is what happens when fractured relationships is a norm....

Choose Wisely.

 

[Chicity]

My answer gonna change slightly

It really depends on all our relationship. If in 5yrs me and buddy dont have nothing but passing words for each other than's its fuck and no.

If we more than cordial and depending on the event I might be cool with it but it also depends on how the older kids treat the youngest

More likely than not my answer gonna be nah and final