irking my nerves
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Scandalust313
Unshakeable Unbreakable Victorious
"Shit that irks your nerves in a relationship"
Relationships
"things that you don't like thatstirred *steered* you away from someone"
Selfish, needy, controlling, 'unsmart', too many kids and/or baby mamas/ex wives, don't know how to do shit (change a tire, properly clean house, can't fix/put stuff together, etc.), boring, untrustworthy, always complaining, angry, awful/no communication skills, inflexible (too set in their ways/unwilling to improve themselves), not self reflective/actualized
Le sigh...
Relationships
"things that you don't like that
Selfish, needy, controlling, 'unsmart', too many kids and/or baby mamas/ex wives, don't know how to do shit (change a tire, properly clean house, can't fix/put stuff together, etc.), boring, untrustworthy, always complaining, angry, awful/no communication skills, inflexible (too set in their ways/unwilling to improve themselves), not self reflective/actualized
Le sigh...
deadeye
Warrior
deadeye
Warrior
Royal
Active Member
Omg a messy person in general irks the hell out of me. If your car has yesterday's food wrappers and hasn't been cleaned in forever and of course the house.
I think I have a touch of OCD. Put stuff back where it goes. Everything has a place.
Shotta
Da Beast
IP360
Doctorate & Ph.D in Bootyology
...currently my situation.
If my Dad didn't come visit...the 2nd room would still look like an explosion went off.
Unfortunately...the explosion moved upstairs.
Tayboo
There she go🥰
Add me to the list of folks who hate to step into a messy home. Like you know I'm coming over and you didn't think to clean up???
Other things that irk me is when someone wants to pick and choose when they want to act like they are in a relationship.
People who hear, but don't listen.
Unwilling to compromise.
People who think that now that we're in a relationship, you don't have still do the things that got me.
Other things that irk me is when someone wants to pick and choose when they want to act like they are in a relationship.
People who hear, but don't listen.
Unwilling to compromise.
People who think that now that we're in a relationship, you don't have still do the things that got me.
IP360
Doctorate & Ph.D in Bootyology
1st bolded...
...aside from 2 people, every woman I've dealt wit I had this issue.
2nd bolded...facts. For me it's in the sex department.
B4 gettin in a relationship...they down to try all sorts of freaky shyt. More assertive. Had no qualms sending random freaky pics/vids.
But as soon as we get in a relationship, most of that stops. Asking for a pic is like pulling teeth. The freaky shyt comes once in a blue moon. Seems like the whole attitude is...
"Well I now got him in a relationship. So there's no need to continue doin those things."
There's no real effort from them to continue doin those things...to KEEP that person in the relationship. Like "Ok I did my part. Finally got them to commit. Mission accomplished."
ImaInfluenza
Who do you think you are? I am
Indirectness, being mean to others, not being open minded, can’t have an in-depth conversation, not being open with your feelings , gossiping, not knowing what you want sexually
ImaInfluenza
Who do you think you are? I am
The number one thing that irks me more than anything, and it may be my fault, maybe I create this feeling in others because so much people do it with me..
Them—are you busy
Me—why what do you want
Them—are you busy tho?
Me—what do you want
Them—I mean it’s ok if you’re busy
Me—why, what the fuck do you want
Them—never mind if you already got an attitude
Them—are you busy
Me—why what do you want
Them—are you busy tho?
Me—what do you want
Them—I mean it’s ok if you’re busy
Me—why, what the fuck do you want
Them—never mind if you already got an attitude
loud-ninja
Here to point out the illogical
You not initially saying yes or no comes off as "it depends". So she might think you will say "im busy" depending on what she wants.