What the mother do shouldn't dictate how good a father you should be. Your actions will show the kid that you're not the clown the mother painting you to be and as they get older they will understand that
Final Child Support Payment in Pennies
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@DOS_patos your takes in this thread is pure bullshit.
If you truly don’t give a fuck about someone and wanna be done, you won’t waste much energy getting it done. This man used hella energy to make that shit happen and not once thought how his daughter could be offended. He wanted it to be a show. This showed he had an issue with paying to support his child because if he didn’t, he wouldn’t have done all that.
If you truly don’t give a fuck about someone and wanna be done, you won’t waste much energy getting it done. This man used hella energy to make that shit happen and not once thought how his daughter could be offended. He wanted it to be a show. This showed he had an issue with paying to support his child because if he didn’t, he wouldn’t have done all that.
DMorgan
You niggas is EXCOMMUNICADO!!!
I agree. Question just to keep the thread moving
Do you feel some of those parents issues stem from being forced to support the kids in the way the mother or the system wants them to instead being able to find a common ground in support between the parents?
You’re in here supporting this man. The energy he put into dumping his final payment shows that he had an issue with it. He did that shit outta spite. Child support don’t stop at 18, yes technically due to courts but the display he showed was “I’m finally done with this shit and I can go on about my life” and that right there is a trash ass father. Someone you in here defending.
Scandalust313
Unshakeable Unbreakable Victorious
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
You can disagree with his actions but understand.
The man said he acted out of 18 yrs of frustration and wasnt trying to create more of a wedge with his kid.
He admits to acting out of emotion.
Yes because nobody really likes to be told how to spend their money. Now, child support is like 20% of your monthly income based on one kid in TX. Although, it may feel forced, if you have an issue giving that much to support your child, something is wrong.
Lou Cypher
The Tokin' White Guy
That pile of pennies was way smaller than I anticipated
mryounggun
OG
Before I make any decision, I ask myself 'Why am I doing this? What is my goal is? What am I trying to accomplish?'.
We know what he was doing. Ww know what his goal was. We know what he was trying to accomplish.
This shit is corny. I'm certain that afterwards, homie looked in the mirror and said to himself 'Fuck was the point of that? You shoulda just paid the $800 like normal and moved on with your life.'
We know what he was doing. Ww know what his goal was. We know what he was trying to accomplish.
This shit is corny. I'm certain that afterwards, homie looked in the mirror and said to himself 'Fuck was the point of that? You shoulda just paid the $800 like normal and moved on with your life.'
mryounggun
OG
*salute* Respect.
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
Most people don’t like being in the system.
you miss payments and It can be jail time.
There are stories of dudes needing to work two jobs just to make payments and survive and don’t have much time with their child.
a lot of dudes celebrate not being forced and having the system dictate what support it.
I said from the get go.....dude was frustrated
mryounggun
OG
I'd have a HUGE problem paying child support for either of my children. That's not the same as not providing for them.
Dumping them pennies was the wedge of all wedges.
DMorgan
You niggas is EXCOMMUNICADO!!!
We agree. Thanks for the answer
Scandalust313
Unshakeable Unbreakable Victorious
You misunderstood what I said
Child support is providing...the dude in question obviously had a problem with paying child support
Black_Samson
OG
Dude gon be mad as a mfer when another man she call dad walking her down the aisle and being called granddad.
This the kinda shit that impacts your relationship with the grand babies...
This the kinda shit that impacts your relationship with the grand babies...
Child support should only be for the parent who's not involved of the day to day parenting
Majority of these dudes crying about child support barely paying crumbs to support a child. If you gotta work all these jobs to pay 20% of your income to support your child, should’ve been more careful. Supporting a kid cost more than 20% of your monthly income.