Situation/question:
Messed around with a mutual colleague in my job, she and I had a coffee date and nearly went all the way (deal was not completed). Happened a few years ago. Now I hear through our grapevines that she is married and has a daughter with her husband. A colleague of hers and I are working on a case together when after meeting, she sends me a message on what's app
I didn't know you and (mutual colleague) were a couple.
Makes sense now!
Why would a lady claim you and her were exclusive (bf gf), when she knows that never happened..?