Living together and paying bills.

[MIUSA]

what I’ve been saying haven’t changed.
Also I don’t have an agenda. If I did why the fuck would I post here when there’s other websites with higher traffic. I just love you niggas no homo.

 

[MIUSA]

Niggaz stay tryna to gain points with money when they crapped out in other areas.


Like it's always some boring, ugly nigga with no charisma who come up with this shit.

It always be the dudes who can't pull chicks. Get played by chicks. Or insecure some other way...

Cuz niggaz who have no issues pulling women don't focus on rules n shit.... Cuz they don't apply.

A dude could not be working, not driving, staying at a chick house, don't pay no bills.... And live like that for YEARS calling the shots...

Women get fed up?

He'll leave and find another in a week. It just goes like that for some dudes.

It makes women sick, but they always go for it. And dudes who can't pull it off be salty for some reason.

Same shit for dating

Oh you supposed to have $200 before you take a chick out?

Iiight... Bet.

It's plenty of niggaz who have women call them asking to to go out... Their treat.

Shit ain't got nothing to do with gender roles. Them shits is played out any way. It's down to what you can do and what you can't do.

And niggaz who can't do shit always worried about those who can do

build a prospering society off the bs example. Let me know how that goes.
Those ideals were there for a reason. Doing what ever works code you crap is how society declines

 

[Duwop]

build a prospering society off the bs example. Let me know how that goes.
Those ideals were there for a reason. Doing what ever works code you crap is how society declines

Society is declining in a multitude of ways.

Woman paying bills ain't gonna collapse the economy no time soon tho....

There's other more important shit to focus on

 

[ChicagoFigure]

Sounds like hes tryna cope with being the only adult in the house

 

[ChicagoFigure]

With that said, if i got it like that (and can still save my money) im not too pressed about how we split

But if shes not doin shit for herself, never offers to help even if i dont need it, n has no real purpose its a huge turn off

If a chick has no initiative im wasting my time and my money

 

[B_A]

If that's how you want to live, live your life. If you dont agree with that way, then dont live that way. As long as how you live doesnt hurt someone else emotionally, mentally, physically or spiritually. So simple yet so complex.

 

[silverfoxx]

Shit sexist bruh

 

[deadeye]

Shit sexist bruh

Ask any woman you know how they'd feel about their man paying all the bills.


Then let us know what kind of responses you get.


I could be wrong, but I don't think any of them will say that it's sexist.

 

[silverfoxx]

Ask any woman you know how they'd feel about their man paying all the bills.


Then let us know what kind of responses you get.


I could be wrong, but I don't think any of them will say that it's sexist.

My girl will, but I been peeped that she ain't the norm so I guess you right man.

 

[silverfoxx]

Ask any woman you know how they'd feel about their man paying all the bills.


Then let us know what kind of responses you get.


I could be wrong, but I don't think any of them will say that it's sexist.

Btw just curious, how old are you? We have to acknowledge that there is a generational gap of ideologies of sex roles and concepts with people. I know a decent one of women on second thoughts that don't want their man paying for everything. They on some empowerment equal rights shit though.

 

[Koltrain]

Ask any woman you know how they'd feel about their man paying all the bills.


Then let us know what kind of responses you get.


I could be wrong, but I don't think any of them will say that it's sexist.

They won't, but ask em if it's sexist for the woman to stay home and take care of the house in return for getting bills paid....

 

[Chicagobully21]

Depends on the situation. That situation works for him. Well good for him, another man can't tell me how things should/will be in my house

 

[deadeye]

Btw just curious, how old are you? We have to acknowledge that there is a generational gap of ideologies of sex roles and concepts with people. I know a decent one of women on second thoughts that don't want their man paying for everything. They on some empowerment equal rights shit though.

49........soon to be 50.


You're dead on about the empowerment thing, but most of them want it both ways.


Meaning, they like to talk that independent stuff..........but they still expect their man to be the main provider.


At least the women from my generation.


The younger chicks do seem to be on some other stuff though.

 

[deadeye]

They won't, but ask em if it's sexist for the woman to stay home and take care of the house in return for getting bills paid....

Exactly what I was getting at.

 

[shutupGabi]

But what I dont understand is a wife having a job and making money, but the husband pays all the bills, and she keeps her money to herself. Shit makes no sense to me.

I'd imagine it means you live off the man's income and use the womans income for savings/investments.

 

[shutupGabi]

That's that old school shit lol. Dynamics change as the times change. A man ain't less of a man if his woman bringing her own money to the table in 2019.

 

[AZTG]

I'd imagine it means you live off the man's income and use the womans income for savings/investments.

In that case thats not really the same as a man paying for everything. Thats more like all the money is our money which makes sense.

 

[AP2.5]

patriarchy is convenient when you need it to be apparently

 

[shutupGabi]

In that case thats not really the same as a man paying for everything. Thats more like all the money is our money which makes sense.

I told them bitches on LSA this yesterday and I minus well have been speaking Arabic.

 

[AP2.5]

I told them bitches on LSA this yesterday and I minus well have been speaking Arabic.

are you gabi over there as well? I wanna get in on the action