Dear ABW Pt. 4...

[IP360]

 

[IP360]

Depends imo.

If the proposal was done publicly and turned me down negatively...over.

If it was done behind closed doors, and she turned me down respectfully...followed up her reason by saying she wasn't ready...or felt it was too soon...relationship still on. I can understand that.

 

[Duwop]

Naw, my ego can't handle that kind of rejection.

 

[SeaSnake]

Might as well be

 

[Hater Hearst Helmsley]

Most definitely

 

[Lea]

What if she wants/plans to be with you just doesn't want to be married?

 

[Goldie]

What if she wants/plans to be with you just doesn't want to be married?

That's something that would've been brought up within the 3 years. If he knew she was opposed to marriage he wouldn't have put himself out there.

 

[Lea]

That's something that would've been brought up within the 3 years. If he knew she was opposed to marriage he wouldn't have put himself out there.

Good point...he obviously isn't taking cues from his lady tho if, after 3 years, he asked and she said no.

 

[Duwop]

That's something that would've been brought up within the 3 years. If he knew she was opposed to marriage he wouldn't have put himself out there.

Word, I am not capable of translating that to anything but disrespect.

Like no matter how hard I try to get past it, I'm always gonna look at it like she let me play myself and ain't even stop me.

I really would not be able to get over that shit.... I'd literally side eye every thing she does and say, and that's no way to be in a relationship.

 

[Duwop]

Plus I'd be dumb paranoid on how she expresses it to whoever she talks to about it first.


Cuz I would be convinced whatever she told me was bull shit. And I would be desperate to know what the fuck she really thinking.


Just too much. We'd be breaking up.

 

[HollidaySeason]

The relationship is done. After 3yrs and proper communication he should have definitely known if she was ready or not

 

[Eartha Clit]

For me, it’s a wrap and fuck you.

 

[Rubato]

How you don’t have a better pulse on where she’s at mentally after 3 yrs? It’s always confused me how this kind of thing happens.

Of course the exception is when the nigga pull out a proposal as a Hail Mary after he get caught cheating

 

[IP360]

How you don’t have a better pulse on where she’s at mentally after 3 yrs? It’s always confused me how this kind of thing happens.

Of course the exception is when the nigga pull out a proposal as a Hail Mary after he get caught cheating

A brotha who does that publicly is pretty much a glutton for punishment. You're pretty much asking her to embarrass, then air your dirty laundry out.

 

[Chicity]

Where you supposed to go from here?

'No? Aight Cool, let's go catch some drinks...'

Lol take that L and go build something with someone else

 

[AZTG]

Be hilarious when you start remembering all the times she mentioned how much she wanted to be married and how she beautiful she thought marriage was after she said no to you.

Soul crushed like a mfer

 

[IP360]

I mean if we still stay together after that...marriage is pretty much out the door.

Even if she decides she's ready...nope. It's shacking up from here on out. I offered...you turned me down...oh well. No spousal benefits for you. Lol

 

[Canon]

Naw, my ego can't handle that kind of rejection.

A very fragile one, indeed

 

[Chicity]

Fuck all that, ain't no relationship after a failed marriage proposal

We done done

 

[Remy_LeGermz]

:pathetic:
Looking down at u on ur knee