I really thought this was about the seasons, like I've just planted strawberries in my garden... Guess I learnt sum'n new today.
Used to do it lot, like a whole lot, especially during the ages of 17-23, to great success. About a third of those chicks, I never smashed tho 'cause I combined prudence with high proactivity (it also helped having a lot of options). Rejection has never phased me (If you don't try, you won't succeed), plus I'm not the type to see a chick and later wonder what she'd look like in bed, even though there's no chance of smashing.
Never considered myself a playa, don't think I've got game (always pushed back on that), just know how to interact with people, in this case, females. Nas said it best, "I got no game, it's just some bitches understand my story".... Yo! lmao I used that line (chicks instead of b's) on a couple of 'em when even they made that judgement... I think that shit sealed the deal too lol. Did I just contradict myself? I don't think so.
Niggas in college wasn't even tryna be subtle with how their attitude changed towards me after seeing how proficient I was. Friend of a friend all of a sudden wanting to be a close friend type shit.
The shift began when we pulled up to a KFC, see this chick finish a cig (she spotted us too), walk back in and take a seat right next to her mum. Everyone else starts talking 'bout how nice she looks (I don't really do much of that), I just jumped out at da backseat, walked in. Faked knowing her, all with mum right there and she went along with it, her accent gave off a lil hint that she might be African. So I said "Is this your mum? ohh nice to meet you aunty" then she came outside briefly for a couple laughs.
Soon as I got back to the car, my guy at the wheel all giddy n shit says "From now on, if you wanna ride shotgun, you're riding shotgun!" Nigga gesticulated like he was at the dais making a decree. Lol. Mind you, I've never considered it an admirable or special quality. Like J. Cole said "all you got is a phone full of bitches". For 5yrs now, been doing a lot more warm approaches (lol see what this nigga got me saying).. like to be in her vicinity (typically results in both of us being aware of each other's presence) for a short while, so I get a better feel for her current mood.
*a lil bit extra... dealt with the chick not for long, 2yrs later she'd become a leisurely heroin smoker (no bullshit!) and the only functioning one I've met (I've known couple), so much so, I helped give her inroads to a job at Harrods (super high-end store)... Found out after, she joined the college that I changed to, me thinking lemme see what dat coochie saying now, put her back on my line... then she unburdened herself and became foul territory.*