I took the test and it said my love language was quality time.
You know what, this is true. Cause when I think about it. I believe the best form of respect is to give someone your undivided attention. It’s shows that you care what they have to say because what they have to say is important to them. It shows that what’s important to them is important to me.
Last night while chilling with my daughter she goes to tell me something and I’m listening and she asks. “Why do you always do that” and I asked her always do what. She said “everytime I talk to you, you stop what you are doing, like putting your phone down, putting the game controller down, stopping the car, or stoping a chore. You always stop what you’re doing when I talk to you.”
I said, I don’t know, it’s a form of respect, I’m showing you respect. She said, yea and when I call your name you respond “yes ma’am, why do you do that, you’re the adult”
And I told her that, that’s how she should be spoken to , regardless of who’s speaking to her.
I’m all about respect and connections, never realized it was my love language