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  1. I

    Why i don't agree with "a man should never hit a woman"

    I don't agree with the idea "a real man NEVER hits a woman" for 2 reasons 1) You're saying it's ok to hit a man. It's not ok to hit ANYONE unless its for self defense. You're also promoting the idea men can't be abused by women which is not true. 2) You're saying women are weaker than men which...
  2. I

    False expectations of attraction

    When i was a kid, i had false expectations on attracting women. I thought you had to be manly, arrogant, materialistic, etc. because that's what other boys told me. After spending time with some girls, i realized that's far from the truth. I had a friend who's name was Layla. She was a very nice...
  3. I

    Tip to have a long-lasting relationship

    To survive a relationship, you need to control your anxiety. When you get anxious, you start doing things that destroy the relationship. When i get anxious for example, i get paranoid. I'm afraid my partner is cheating, lying, or in an accident. I tend to have outbursts and interrogate. I listen...
  4. I

    Rejecting unhealthy women

    It's very hard for me to reject mentally unhealthy women in dating. They're like a drug. I have to do it if i want to find real love. When you drown in feelings for someone, you ignore red flags and signs that person is hurting you or will hurt you in the future. Unhealthy women might make you...
  5. NeighborhoodNomad

    OPINION Relationship Contracts/Agreements??

    We know that marriage is a sort of a contract but what do you think about having contracts or agreements for relationships? For example... You and the person you're interested in or have been dating decide to be committed to each other (exclusively or otherwise) for a given period of time (1yr...
  6. S

    What is going on with this coworker?

    I had a one-on-one meeting with my coworker who's married. We both sat down across from each other and I noticed that he started tugging on the collar of his shirt for a few seconds. Then, he started touching his face. He started rubbing his mouth area and the sides of his face with his hand...
  7. G

    Why is this man acting like this?

    Not too long ago, my therapist had said something to me that made me feel uncomfortable as well as uncertain about how he views me. At one point, I had told him that I liked him as a therapist. Right after I had made that comment, he told me with a big smile on his face that he was glad that I...
  8. Eartha Clit

    What do you miss?

    Single people, what do you miss about being in a relationship? Taken people, what do you miss about being single?
  9. Eartha Clit

    What’s your relationship status?

  10. Eartha Clit

    Closer to your best friend than your S/O.

    Would you date someone who is closer to their best friend than they were to you? Would the best friend being the opposite gender, change anything? Would it bother you?
  11. AP2.5

    OPINION Fair or Foul: Woman tells young girls that she doesn't pay bills b/c she knows how to care for a man

  12. K

    How long should you stay while your s/o is unemployed??

    5.) Issa was out of line, you're supposed to hold down your dude if he's going through a rough time. 4.) Lawrence still supposed to make Issa feel every kiss he gives her and still treat her like a gf. 3.) Ppl have their own agendas to justify their actions. 2.) Molly sexy than a...
  13. Eartha Clit

    Cheating...

    Cheating has been around since forever. Sadly, cheating has damn near become acceptable. People are so open about having side chicks, main chicks, weekend chicks, a chick just for Thursday nights. It's a high chance that if you haven't cheated yourself or been cheated on, you know at least 5...
  14. Eartha Clit

    Mental Connection/Physical Connection

    Is having a good mental connection with someone more important than a physical one? Would you prefer someone who has a 10 personality but a 3 in looks or a 3 personality but a 10 in looks?
  15. Eartha Clit

    Does someone's past matter?

    Could you be in a relationship with someone that your friend slept with? Men: Let's say your friend gets with a chick who was ran through quite often. Would you tell him or let him be? Women: Let's say your friend gets with a man who was fucking every bitch in sight. Would you tell her or let...
  16. Eartha Clit

    Getting to know you.

    Stolen: So I just saw this and want to pose the question to my single folks... Would you swap phones with someone and go through each other's phones to "get to know them" and ultimately make a choice to get to know them further or not based solely on what you saw while with the phone?
  17. Eartha Clit

    We need to talk.

    How are often are you willing to have conversations with your s/o about your feelings and whatnot? I know men hate when women say "we need to talk."
  18. Eartha Clit

    Thoughts?

    For one I thought it was funny that it's my name and says she is a single parent of one, like myself. I also have a fear of my child not being accepted or treated as a grandchild to my new man's family. I don't care for all the lavish gifts, I just want him to be loved and accepted. Growing up...
  19. Reesey

    Are women too needy or do men neglect their duties?

    Debate in my whatsapp group. Is it the woman's issue if the attention she is getting from her dude is not enough, or does the issue lie with the man not giving her the attention she needs and should it be on him to increase? I know I am needy and get idle quickly. I like attention and when I...
  20. NeighborhoodNomad

    Random Thots & Relationships

    This is a place to share some of your random relationship thoughts/thots, questions, concerns, and perspectives about any and everything dealing with relationships and sex.
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