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OPINION Spinoff: Are you no-fap or pro-fap?

I think it can become a problem if in a relationship and you're doing more porn watching and masturbating than sex with your partner.
I'm not a man though so I can't say how beneficial it is or isn't them but for me as a woman, I enjoy it.
Granted, it isn't sex but hell it gets the job done enough.
 
I’m not gone front, I tell myself no fappin no mo.

Then I end up wit the house to myself, I’m chilling scrolling through the Xbox store. I see a pic of some video game chick wit a tight body suit on showing a fat booty.. and before I know it

I’m infront of my phone wit xvideos on the browser and my dick out like
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Germs said:
I’m not gone front, I tell myself no fappin no mo.

Then I end up wit the house to myself, I’m chilling scrolling through the Xbox store. I see a pic of some video game chick wit a tight body suit on showing a fat booty.. and before I know it

I’m infront of my phone wit xvideos on the browser and my dick out like
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Damn that’s tough.
 
I am No Fap for life! and I think porn is bad for the brain, not too long ago I was Pro Fap and proud. I would give myself excuses about why I did it to myself - "well at least I'm not cheating on my girl" but the truth is I was just cheating myself, I was living in a fantasy land and mind fucking all of these pixels on the internet day and night and that shit was draining me of my energy, my mind was focused on nothing but fucking most of the time and if I was out in public I was eye fucking the ladies left right and center, it had become a habit to bash one out in the morning before I got out of bed and drain myself before breakfast then I would do it again at night as soon as the coast was clear, I need to write a book on this shit.
 
BNE said:
do you think porn, erotic material and masturbation are harmful or beneficial
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Nope I dont. I haven't seen any medical reports tho so I can't be sure. I've seen testimonials on the internet but then again it supposedly gives u hairy palms and my hands are bald.

BNE said:
also, how would you react if a partner asked you to stop?
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She'd just have to make herself more available then.
 
I was profap for a long time, minding my business like I should. But overtime it just started to piss me off, I'm tired of watching mofos fucking.
I've also noticed I used to get tired easily after strenuous activity. So at first I started working on my health and eating organic foods, that helped alot.
Still profap, I realized I used to go to bathroom alot, and found out I had erectile dysfunction. I was also losing hair at the top of my hairline ( part was straightener chemical damage, and part was lack of growth up top.) So I checked on how to regrow hair and found that PMO could cause hair loss because you are depleting nutrients when ejaculating.

So I started looking into PMO and found out about NoFap. Looking at videos and different stories of how it ruins other dude's lives, I said let me get started doing this. Stop doing PMO the first time 19 days and started seeing attraction and a better mental clarity almost immediately. Was relapsing frequently and going through withdrawals, until I started using tonic herbs. Now I could say I'm NoFap for life. It's better to receive that reward of sex with your partner then resorting to watching people on a screen smashing and you are only simulating doing it.
 
Pro. Why? Cuz we grown.

Honestly pornos do nothing for me. Prefer homemade sex vids.
 
I'm on my no fap movement starting this new yr. Been strong so far. Pray for me

Tired of porn , shit dead anyway
 
Preach2Teach said:
I am No Fap for life! and I think porn is bad for the brain, not too long ago I was Pro Fap and proud. I would give myself excuses about why I did it to myself - "well at least I'm not cheating on my girl" but the truth is I was just cheating myself, I was living in a fantasy land and mind fucking all of these pixels on the internet day and night and that shit was draining me of my energy, my mind was focused on nothing but fucking most of the time and if I was out in public I was eye fucking the ladies left right and center, it had become a habit to bash one out in the morning before I got out of bed and drain myself before breakfast then I would do it again at night as soon as the coast was clear, I need to wrote a book on this shit.
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Look. I fap.

It's like microwave meals.

Sometimes you don't feel like getting up and making a whole meal, heating up the oven n shit. Seasoning. Cutting up ingredients n All that.

Sometimes you want a quick bust off. That's it.

But if I'm like extra hungry, and in the mood for a big ass meal.... I'm willing to hop in the kitchen and prepare that shit to perfection.

And I'm a big boy, so I eat good, well, and often..... But sometimes I throw shit in the microwave for like a minute or two and keep it moving
 
Nofap.

For some of the reasons preach mentioned, and also because I can tangibly feel the change in a negative way. It wasn't known as the "little death" since the medieval days for nothing
 
BNE said:
do you think porn, erotic material and masturbation are harmful or beneficial?
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It can absolutely be harmful if you jack off too much. It can harm a relationship you're in, and it can warp your perspective on women and train your mind to objectify them, on some subconscious shit.

Everything is fine in moderation. I posted in that thread yesterday, but I pretty much said that some of the "beneficial" side effects from NoFap are all in your head.
 
Zagreus said:
. It wasn't known as the "little death" since the medieval days for nothing
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aw shit, I didn't know this

Brian said:
It can absolutely be harmful if you jack off too much. It can harm a relationship you're in, and it can warp your perspective on women and train your mind to objectify them, on some subconscious shit.

Everything is fine in moderation. I posted in that thread yesterday, but I pretty much said that some of the "beneficial" side effects from NoFap are all in your head.
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devil's advocate: do you think this can happen to women who fap too much?
 
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