How Important Is a Ring?

[NeighborhoodNomad]

Ladies and gentlemen how important is a ring to you?

How important is it for you to receive a ring from your s/o?

How important is it for you to give a ring to your s/o?

I'm pretty non traditional so a ring to symbolize our relationship has never been a big deal to me. But oddly enough, if my potential wife were to have these same sentiments I would give her a ring, a crown even.

How important is a ring to you?

 

[IP360]

Meh...for me...not a big deal.

For her...big deal.

My Dad didn't wear his. But that was b/c it no longer fitted on his finger. He was a slimmer man when he & my mama got married. Lol

 

[SeaSnake]

Im traditional so im cool with it id like to get her a ring down there.

 

[Duwop]

person to person..

i wear my ring, but it doesn't define me or us....as the same with her.....

i never made a huge deal about the rings, or went into much debt for them.....


i had them paid off fairly early in the game.....maybe like a year or two after we got married

 

[NeighborhoodNomad]

person to person..

i wear my ring, but it doesn't define me or us....as the same with her.....

i never made a huge deal about the rings, or went into much debt for them.....


i had them paid off fairly early in the game.....maybe like a year or two after we got married

Do you think you and Lady Du have gotten married without a ring?

 

[Knock_Twice]

As du stated, it wouldn't define me or anything and I hope it wouldn't define her.

I would like to wear and have one to look the part of being a husband.

Not something I have to have.

 

[NeighborhoodNomad]

As du stated, it wouldn't define me or anything and I hope it wouldn't define her.

I would like to wear and have one to look the part of being a husband.

Not something I have to have.

When you say "look the part" do you mean so other people in the world know you're married?

In that case I think rings are great for telling me which woman to not pursue.

 

[Knock_Twice]

When you say "look the part" do you mean so other people in the world know you're married?

In that case I think rings are great for telling me which woman to not pursue.

Yea, that's exactly what I mean, wearing the ring would I guess put me into that club to where I'm off limits. (but that shit don't mean anything)

Yea, that's the very 1st thing I look for is if a woman is wearing a ring.

 

[shutupGabi]

I want one but I don't want something super expensive. I'd much prefer you ask me what kind I want first or let me design it cuz my taste in rings is *different*

 

[Allergens]

I want one but I don't want something super expensive. I'd much prefer you ask me what kind I want first or let me design it cuz my taste in rings is *different*

That’s a great point, and should be standard. Cause really, the engagement ring is a claim of love of the type of person a woman is. It should reflect who she is, and be a reminder to her that it’s who she is that made you want to put a ring on it.

 

[Golden]

I want one but I don't want something super expensive. I'd much prefer you ask me what kind I want first or let me design it cuz my taste in rings is *different*

word, I got eccentric taste. I'd design him something unusual, too.

 

[Judge Dread]

word, I got eccentric taste. I'd design him something unusual, too.

@ you know who . Shotta seem like a nice person so you have to pay for those blood diamonds.

 

[Golden]

@ you know who . Shotta seem like a nice person so you have to pay for those blood diamonds.

thank you my rasta fam! I aint a diamond girl but thank you for your support.

 

[Judge Dread]

thank you my rasta fam! I aint a diamond girl but thank you for your support.

Yeah my wife the same the same thing. So our first ceremony she just got a regular band. She never said anything or complained a day but our most recent ceremony I gave her something a little more becoming of who she is and what she means to me. She is more af a sapphire person than diamond tho.

 

[Golden]

Yeah my wife the same the same thing. So our first ceremony she just got a regular band. She never said anything or complained a day but our most recent ceremony I gave her something a little more becoming of who she is and what she means to me. She is more af a sapphire person than diamond tho.

it sounds beautiful. does she wear both now?

 

[Judge Dread]

it sounds beautiful. does she wear both now?

Yes. She didn’t want an engagement ring because she said it would get in the way plus she does a bunch of stuff with our son so she preferred a band.

 

[MzLyricist]

when I was younger, maybe. Now I really don’t care too much about a ring. Especially if it’s just a relationship. Buttt if my man wanna gone head and give me a ring :saywut:. I’m down for the cause.

 

[5th Letter]

I'd get one off the strength of my lady. But I personally don't care about a ring.

 

[Playmaker88]

The ring shouldn't be a material status symbol but .. thats what it is to many people who care more about the party/ and he favors but devalue their partner and relationship.

 

[DOS_patos]

my wife asked for a certain type of ring...i got it for her....but in return i said if i have to be married...i want diamonds too....an she bought it.

while it can be a symbol it should go both ways.

i see too many dudes out here with just plain steel on the finger while the lady has diamonds.

nah....if we gonna be equal....then thats what it should be.