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Who do you think you are? I am
No doubt@Alle'Oop making some good points
No doubt@Alle'Oop making some good points
Tell you, it nothin worse than not fappin when u got the chance cause you expecting some mout.
Only for her to shower and go to sleep
U sitting up in the bed stewing
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I’ll play along since SOME of you idiots don’t either acknowledge your history, think that it begins post 1492, or just decided to disregard it. For thousands of years, many African nations were polygamous. So to classify a black man as cheating would in most cases contradict what has been in his DNA for many generations before monogamy was forced upon America.
All you have to do, or rather most of what you have to do, regarding finding true victory and freedom, is focus on a time when YOUR people were winning collectively and see how they lived. Hmmmm. Mansa Musa is a good start (wealthiest man who ever lived this far) but oh wait, he had several wives. Guess that makes him a low life huh? Fuck outta here.
Also, what is nature trying to tell us? If women outnumber men just like the planets outnumber the sun, and we have to assume that women have some sort of standards, that would leave your options for a sustainable relationship, not a random fuck, to be close to 0. It is what it is though.
The difference between Ben Roethlisberger having a radio show after every Sunday, telling all the world what all his teammates did wrong and how it's not his fault.
And Tom Brady telling the world what I could have done better, or what "we" have to better.
Rather than seeking to have that dialogue and communicate where they believe she was wrong in a effective way, and she can go deeper into why she feels that way and a constructive conversation can be had..
Its just..you fat broad, you coon, you bed wench, niggaz dont want you no way.
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Like Iran recently showed wit Trump..you dont meet ignorance with ignorance
@Alle'Oop
Here's an example of what I mean when I say there are those in our community who are so focused on their own hurt that all the want is a listening audience to degrade us as some form of revenge. Ain't no dialogue with people like that. You're in violation at that point.
He couldn't even finish his sentences. He had to speak in a raised tone because whoopi kept interrupting him, being condescending and "mmm hmm"
Bruh, WE can't fix that. That's a HER issue and if she chooses not to address it that's on her, but she ain't gonna get up and bash us without consequence. Nor any other damaged beyone repair brotha or sista. We can't afford to tolerate those clown anymore than we can afford to continue tolerating dope dealers, jack boys etc.
Do you have a girlfriend?
I’ll play along since SOME of you idiots don’t either acknowledge your history, think that it begins post 1492, or just decided to disregard it. For thousands of years, many African nations were polygamous. So to classify a black man as cheating would in most cases contradict what has been in his DNA for many generations before monogamy was forced upon America.
All you have to do, or rather most of what you have to do, regarding finding true victory and freedom, is focus on a time when YOUR people were winning collectively and see how they lived. Hmmmm. Mansa Musa is a good start (wealthiest man who ever lived this far) but oh wait, he had several wives. Guess that makes him a low life huh? Fuck outta here.
Also, what is nature trying to tell us? If women outnumber men just like the planets outnumber the sun, and we have to assume that women have some sort of standards, that would leave your options for a sustainable relationship, not a random fuck, to be close to 0. It is what it is though.
Then you know that often when you are communicating with a black woman about a disagreement, that's the vibe.No, but I have a beaitiful black wife
To your bolded point..So here's the thing. Like I said, everybody wants to bring up black men leading. We should and we are. The problem is everybody has a skewed view of what that means.
The overall sentiment in our community is that men are optional. There's been too many generations of women that have instilled in their daughters and sons that a man, specifically a black can't be depended on or trusted to make the right choices.
All of that is based on the men they CHOSE or sometimes didn't choose, like fathers that left them.
Now what we have is a bunch of men who overly empathize with women to the point they think like them. They make excuses for reckless behavior as if our sistas are incapable of being civil adults that can overcome hardship and trauma.
Those same damaged women hide behind that curtain and never live up to their full potential because nobody expects them to. Everybody makes excuses.When it comes to us as men, you keep attacking attacking attacking and you will get what you looking for.
The fact of the matter is women who think like this have already abandoned our community and nothing we could say no matter how gentle or thoughtful will change that. She'd only look at that as us kissing her ass now that she has a white guy. Case in point, Terry Crews before he got broken, went on one of them shows (hell might have been this one) talking about how a father gives you your name.
The gist was that your father instills your purpose, give you confidence, helps you define yourself with the courage to stand. The hosts shut his ass down claiming he was degrading single mothers by saying that. :wtff:
So the only response to openly rebuke her ass and others like her man or woman. We have sellouts who ain't interested in dialogue, only attack.
We don't have time to tolerate sellouts who use their platforms to shit on brothas and sistas to make a buck while stroking their ego in the process.
Riddle me this, if this had been a black man, making such idiotic statements about black women, would you have the same approach to dialogue? Because I would still have the same smoke for him.
Last, you can't compare avoiding a war of death to a war of words. One kills ppl and causes mass destruction, the other simply hurts feelings
What if he just reacted to the reaction on the same level as the disrespect he received, or even in another case. If Boosie reacted to the Kappas like they reacted to him.
Grown nigga shit
You preaching to the choir on creating a productive dialogue.
But like I said before, these ppl that are shitting on other black men/women aint interested in that at all.
Certain shit shouldn't be "well why do you feel like that". Like these beauty store owner degrading our sistas for instance. You meet certain types of aggression with force.
We just gon have to disagree on this one fam.
How do you know that? Did you know that TI was interested in that dialogue before a feminine outlet invited him to talk about it?You preaching to the choir on creating a productive dialogue.
But like I said before, these ppl that are shitting on other black men/women aint interested in that at all.
Certain shit shouldn't be "well why do you feel like that". Like these beauty store owner degrading our sistas for instance. You meet certain types of aggression with force.
We just gon have to disagree on this one fam.
Polygamy is the acknowledgment of outside relationships. Cheating by definition means breaking the rules. If the rules of your relationship is based in polygamy, then sleeping with other women isn't cheating. But if you enter a relationship with a woman and from your words and expressions, it's a monogamous relationship. Sleeping with another woman is breaking the rules of that relationship.I’ll play along since SOME of you idiots don’t either acknowledge your history, think that it begins post 1492, or just decided to disregard it. For thousands of years, many African nations were polygamous. So to classify a black man as cheating would in most cases contradict what has been in his DNA for many generations before monogamy was forced upon America.
All you have to do, or rather most of what you have to do, regarding finding true victory and freedom, is focus on a time when YOUR people were winning collectively and see how they lived. Hmmmm. Mansa Musa is a good start (wealthiest man who ever lived this far) but oh wait, he had several wives. Guess that makes him a low life huh? Fuck outta here.
Also, what is nature trying to tell us? If women outnumber men just like the planets outnumber the sun, and we have to assume that women have some sort of standards, that would leave your options for a sustainable relationship, not a random fuck, to be close to 0. It is what it is though.